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Hiya everyone! Me here.

We had our 39 week appointment today. I am in a much better state of mind now than I was earlier today. I’ve been experiencing a wave of anxiety in regards to labor/delivery and making sure baby is fine these last few weeks. I’m not sure where it came from, just woke up in a panic one day and haven’t been able to shake it. The doctor says it’s normal and that most women feel that way at this point. That’s reassuring. I’ve been trying to meditate on relaxing and letting go. I know that this entire process is not something that I can control, although it doesn’t stop me from trying. Isn’t insanity doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results? Yeah- seems maybe I need a little more time to learn that lesson, right? (:

In other news, baby is doing fine. She is still moving around in there head down and she seems nice and cozy. I fear she never wants to come out . A few days ago I had convinced myself that she was never going to come. Jim just laughed at me. Next time, he’ll be the one to carry our child. I’m sure medical science will have figured out a way to make that happen by the time we have babes #2. The doctor checked my cervix this time (ouch!!!!!!!!!!!!) and it’s soft and I’m dilated  to 1 cm . What does that mean? Absolutely nothing (: I could go into labor 30 minutes from now or 2 weeks from now. The good news is, is that my cervix is soft and progress has been made. Also, she said that if I wanted, I could drink castor oil.  That’s probably because she could see the look of tiredness and desperation on my face. Well, and that fact that I said “This needs to happen soon!” I’m back at work now and while I’m not digging ditches, I’m usually exhausted by noon each day. In addition I have a TON of pelvic pain and pressure. I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this on the blog before, but our doctor was a doctor in India before moving to the states to practice medicine.  She’s done her residency twice and knows her stuff. She said that in India that is how they’d “induce” women. It’s worth a shot, no? Well, I’m going to try it! What can it hurt ? She told me to be patient though and that when the baby is ready she’ll send a signal to my brain to begin labor. I also asked her how much she thinks this little girl weighs at this point. She estimates about 7 lbs.  So, time will tell. We also talked about what happens if she doesn’t come on her due date. If she’s not here Monday the 6th, we’ll come in on Sunday the 12 for induction so she’ll be born that Monday.

So I can do it. I know that at the very most we have less than 3 weeks before we meet our baby girl.

Hope you all are well. Thanks for reading as always.

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We just got back from our 38 week appointment. Things are good. She’s still comfy inside her home and I fear she doesn’t want to come out any time soon (HOPE I AM WRONG).  Jim seems to think it might happen next week once I’m back at work and moving around more (HOPE HE’S RIGHT). I don’t want to force her out, especially after telling her to “stay put” for so long. She’s just being a good girl already and doing what she’s told. So smart already!! (:

In other news my group b  we took last week came back positive. It previously was negative when we took it at 31 weeks. It’s no big deal. Most people have this bacteria on their body. For adults it’s no big deal, for babies it could cause issues. This just means that I need to have an antibiotic when I’m in labor.

No other major news here at the Minneapolis Andrews Household. We’re both just ready to have our baby and meet her. Making last-minute purchases and arrangements for Spark once the big event starts. I think we’re ready.

Tick Tock. Tick Tock…

28 weeks

38 weeks (see, I am getting bigger)

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Hi All!!!

Another week down. Now that I’m officially to term this little girl can come anytime she’d like. Jim is taking his GMAT  test today and I’m not to go into labor until after 4pm today (: I think I’ll make it.

Our appointment went well yesterday. It was pretty simple. We just went over my birth plan and did the strep B swab, which was easy and painless. Our birth plan conversation was pretty comical too. We basically told her that she’s the professional and in charge. We’re expecting to show up, have a baby and healthy mom at the end. I also made it clear that I do indeed want an epidural. That’s my only requirement. My hope is to move around a little, get an epidural, take a nap and wake up ready to push. We all (3 of us) agreed that that would be the perfect labor and delivery (: So, that’s what I’m hoping for.

Next week my doctor will fill out paperwork that allows me to return to work (pending I’m still pregnant then). Returning to work will at least give me something to focus on besides just waiting around for my water to break of contractions to start. Every day I feel like my body gets a little stronger so that’s really good. I still have some aches and pains, but overall I feel good- just BIGGER! Holy moly it actually feels like I’m carrying around a 10 lb bowling ball attached to the front of my body.

It’s surreal to be returning to my normal activities. It’s a great feeling and I’m glad I’m able to get out before the baby comes and I’m inside for a few weeks again. By the way, in case you are wondering, I plan to keep this blog after the baby comes. It started out as a project for me while on bed rest, but I want to keep it as a family blog so everyone can follow up on our Andrews Family Happenings throughout the years (:

Hope everyone is having a great Friday and enjoy your weekends!!

37 week bowling ball.

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Life was good before too, but now it’s good  good now that I can move my body!! The doctor released me from bed rest on Thursday and I could not be any happier. I got the “ok” to start moving around and building up my strength and endurance before little girl gets here.

After out appointment we ran a few errands. We went to Amma Parenting Center  (this is where we took our parenting classes) where we purchased our Moby Wrap and a Belly Bandit for me. LOVE Amma and also the helpful staff.  After Amma we went to a nice lunch at our favorite neighborhood restaurant, Tilia. It felt so good to be back in crowds again. After lunch though, I was definitely ready to go home and rest a bit. I have to remember to be patient and know that I have to walk again before I can run.

I’ll be 36 weeks tomorrow and that was our “make it to” date. Now, if I should go into labor before Feb 6th the doctor would not stop labor and if she looks good at birth she won’t have to go to a special care nursery. She can stay in the room with us. I like the fact that this is an area of concern for my doctor- meaning that she doesn’t like to separate the mommas and the babies if she doesn’t have to. I’m really happy to hear this because after this little one is born my main focus will be on establishing breast-feeding.

My plan here on out is going to be preparing for the little one and also getting out the house at least once a day. The little amount of walking I have done so far has done wonders for my body already. My hips feel much better. My back still needs some work but we’ll get there. I have a message scheduled on Monday and I’m really looking forward to that.

Our next appointment is on Thursday. We have weekly doctor’s appointments now that we’re down to the final weeks. At our next appointments I’ll do the Step B test so my doctor will also have a look at my cervix at that point to see if I’m dilated or effaced at all. EXCITING!! I know one can’t predict these things, but I just have a feeling that she will come sometime this month. Maybe that’s just wishful thinking though. After trying to keep her in so long, it feels odd to be wishing her out now (: I’m just ready to meet her and for the two of us (and Jim) to make it through labor in one piece.

Until next time!

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We have our 36 wk appointment on Thursday and I couldn’t be more  anxious/excited! Our doctor said she’d release me from bed rest once (if) we made it to 36. What I’m hoping is that she’ll count our appointment as that milestone instead of Sunday when I technically turn 36 weeks. When I say I CAN.NOT wait to be off bed rest I really mean it. It’s time. I need to start moving around a little. The big question people have been asking is if this freedom will mean I can go back to work. Probably not. One, it’s going to take time for me to build up my stamina and endurance. After almost 10 weeks of laying around I have lost a lot of strength. Just getting dressed and travelling to the doctor’s office leaves me winded and in need of a nap. At this state there’s no way I could survive an entire day at the office- even though I’m usually sitting at a desk for most of it. At our last appointment I asked my doctor if I’d be able to return to work once bed rest was over and her response was not promising, so I’m not holding my breath. It seems weird to think that after maternity leave I will have been away from work for almost 6 months! That’s crazy! Hope I will remember all of my passwords (:  I Never thought I’d miss working, but I do. I miss the purpose to my day and the interaction with my co workers. I’m lucky enough to have great ones that I enjoy and appreciate. Oh well, soon enough I’ll be back. I know once baby girls gets here unfortunately those 12 weeks off will FLY by.

I’ll be back on Thursday or Friday to update. Until then, be well. See ya next time.

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hi all.

i wanted to check in to wish you a very happy/merry/ wonderful holiday season! jim and i will be excited to host some guests at our home for xmas. his parents will be coming up and there will also be one other couple joining us for a total of 6. i’m very excited to eat jim’s yummy food. he’s making ham, corn pudding, mashed potatoes, cold slaw and his famous chocolate chip cookies. i’m sure i’m forgetting some things, but i’m positive i’ve hit the most important parts (: i have to write everything down nowadays or else i forget it.

in other news we went to our 34 week baby appointment today. i’m happy to report that i’ve gained two pounds since our last appointment 2 weeks ago. i was actually very encouraged by that. at our last appointment i hadn’t gained anything in the 2 week period between appointments and that concerned me a little. at this point baby girl is supposed to gain on average about 1/2 a pound a week  from here on out and also right now my amniotic fluid is supposed to be at its peak. so, the 2 lbs weight gain lets me know that those things are probably  progressing nicely. we were also told that i just need to make it to 35 weeks before i can stop taking procardia (the medicine that controls contractions). procardia has not been my friend as it gives me nasty headaches. hooray!! i can’t wait to throw that junk out. i must admit though that i am grateful that it has been doing a good job of quieting my uterus. but, the very very very very wonderful fantastic great news is that i am released from bed rest at 36 weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i can. not. wait! i am like a kid waiting to go to disney world. the first thing i’m going to do is have a latte somewhere before getting a pedicure. i also asked the doctor if that meant i could actually return to normal normal  life like returning to work and she said, “weeeelllllll, let’s just play it by ear”. i was interested in what she would say because if she did think i could return to work i wanted to somehow physically prepare for it. meaning right now i can barely sit upright for an hour before my body starts to hurt and i begin feeling really exhausted. even if i did nothing else at work besides sit and stare at the wall for 8 hrs, at this point, that would be nearly impossible. it’s so sad how much stamina and endurance i’ve lost over these past 2 months of inactivity. i’m not highlighting this to seem negative. i’m actually thankful that i’ve had this time on bedrest because it’s helped our daughter get the time she needs in my womb. there is no way i could feel bad about that.

so that’s the update. 2 more weeks and then i can start moving around a little and i NEED that time to come-fast. i don’t have any new and exciting photos for you, but i’ll take some at xmas to share next post. this is my 33 week photo.

as always friends, thanks for reading!

until next time.

xo

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i’ll be 32 on my next birthday, but more importantly, i’m 32 today!! 32 weeks pregnant. so happy to have reached my 3rd gestational goal. next up is 35. at 35 (or 36 depending) my doctor promised that my restrictions would be lifted. i didn’t ask for clarification as to if that meant i could at least take short trips out or if that actually means i’m free and can resume my daily activities which would include going back to work. either way- at least i see a light at the end of the tunnel. well, i always had the BIG light (baby) in mind at the end. i mean really, that’s why i’m tolerating all of THIS! (:

anyway life has been very busy around these parts. the andrews household had a  mini make over this week. i think jim got his nesting bug and deciding things needed to change around here before baby came home. we had been talking about getting new living room furniture for months. well, last week he pulled the trigger. we got a new sectional couch, an ottoman, some prints to hang in the living room and hallway, curtains and curtain rods and two new chairs. it makes a huge difference. it feels like we’ve moved. the furniture we had in the living room before was too bulky for the space. with the new furniture it feels like we’ve gained lots of space and it feels more “airy”. jim’s parents came up to help him get everything put together and in place. they also brought up treats for us- a crib, desk (which will become a changing table) and cute clothes for the baby. now we can have more than 2 people over at a time and not feel like we’re siting on top of each other.

we had our bi-weekly doctor’s appointment a little earlier this week. this past thursday evening  i started cramping. i took a hot shower and went to bed and hoped that in the morning it would be gone. i got up and felt a little better, but as the morning progressed they increased in intensity. i texted the doctor and she told us to come in right away. she checked my cervix and it was closed (good sign) and also did a FFN test. what’s that? this: http://www.marchofdimes.com/pregnancy/pretermlabor_fetalfibronectin.html basically it is supposed to measure the likelihood of delivery in the next 2 weeks. i came home and tried to take it easy the rest of the day. later we got a text from the doc letting us know the FFN test was negative. hooray!! that will take us almost all the way to 35 weeks. now, that doesn’t mean i can go jumping on trampolines. i still have to be diligent with my bed resting, but it was nice to have that reassurance that we’re still on the right track to have a term (or close to term) baby.

today jim is going to our infant cpr and first aid class today. i wish i could go ):  i am glad that one of us will have this knowledge. i have taken a course like this in the past because i did a ton of babysitting- so i feel confident i’d be able to recall some of the most critical techniques. i suppose it really doesn’t matter though. we could always hire a full-time doctor in addition to the secret service agents (;

ok friends time for me to lay down again. thanks for reading!!

until next time. xxoo

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